Your son is so brave. I'm a gay 19yo and I will never have the courage to tell my mom. I feel like she will accept me but the shame of being who I am won't let me be open about things. Yes I am ashamed about being gay. However, for your son to come to you and express how he feels at only 15 is a big step and I'm sure you have a great mother to son bond with him. You should not panic, as you said he was in a relationship with a girl for the first time not long ago so he doesn't know what it feels like to be with a guy, he hasn't explored anything yet so I don't think that his feelings are definit. You should be happy that he told you right away instead of keeping those feelings inside himself. I kept them inside, and consequently I became a depressed cutter who almost killed himself. Even tho I'm still not out, this feelings are not as strong as before and I just ignore it and live my life. I apologize if I speak too much about myself, I just want to juxtapose myself from your son so you see that the fact that he told you what he feels right now is the healthy and right direction. I just beg you to please support him if it turns out that the feelings stay with him as he grows up.
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