(((((((jacq)))))))) oh, the stories I could tell you about the things my mother did to try to control my life when I was in college!! I'm sorry to hear some things never change.
My advice (for the very little it's worth) is to kick a job hunt into high gear. I can help you with a resume, if you want; I'm good at those. I can help with interview tips, because at this point in my life (20 years out of college) I have been so through many I can do them while fast asleep and still get the job

. It's all a big game, and there are ways to beat the game.
Let me know if I can help you somehow. I remember this period of my life much too well and if I can help you from having to go through the same garbage, I'd like to.
((((((((((jacq))))))))))
Love, Candy