My T has his email address on his business cards and accepts them but never responds. So, I've stopped sending them. I called him once between sessions and it was in the beginning of my attachment. I hadn't realized it yet.

I thought he was mad at me and said "he seemed different this session"...he chuckled and said he tries to be the same each time and would love to chat more about it but had someone waiting. I felt stupid at that point.