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Originally Posted by I.Am.The.End.
What about being social, but not become closer than necessary to people I'm just going to leave? Whenever I try to get close to people, they use what I've said against me or just betray me in general anyway. As much as I've always wished to have more than a superficial relationship with another human being, it seems like that wasn't meant for me. And having even less time when I go back to school is certainly not going to help.
And that doesn't even touch what I'm supposed to do about dating. I can't even get to a second date after a GOOD first date and I'm afraid that it's because w hen I'm comfortable, I act like myself. So if I were to enjoy the date, they would be thinking, who IS this weirdo?
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if someone becomes a true friend, you'll keep in touch with them & they will keep in touch with you, no need to worry about if they "leave" or not, if they want out of your life, not really a friend. you can very much have meaningful relationships with people, just be yourself and people will love you for who you are, same applies to dating..be comfortable, be yourself. the point of dating is getting to know someone that you possibly can be with...if they are thinking "who is this weirdo" that's not the person for you, what you might be thinking as "weird" your date might be thinking "funny, quirky and fun to be around and not uptight" nobody wants to be on a date with someone that is uptight,
ultra worried about making a mistake..dating is about having fun and getting to know people. not all dates are good & not all are bad. if you have a good date and you enjoyed it, schedule another..if that person declines F*** 'em, next. it's their loss not yours, you have to be yourself or you'll never have fun or be happy..hope this helps!
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