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Originally Posted by dlaka66
I don't really know what to think of it all since I was diagnosed, and the last week I've just sat around depressed, I think I could have gone my whole life without knowing this, I'm usually a "knowledge is power" type of person, but not on this situation yet.
But I do want to work on it all too, and manage to have stable friendships and do well in college for once, I just don't really know how, and my therapist isn't really too helpful. Does anyone have any advice, or things you wish you knew when you were first diagnosed?
Thanks! 
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i wish i knew earlier, much earlier i feel so much better now because i understand my impulses and urges & why i did the things i did and feel they way i do now, it's much easier to regulate my emotions, when i feel myself sliding out of control i say to myself " must be my BPD acting up again let me calm down" that helps me a lot, i still have my mood swings and everything else but i feel like i have much more control over myself now. for me finding out what was wrong was one of the best things that has happened to me in a long time, hope this helps
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