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Old Apr 15, 2014, 06:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Gauri1008 View Post
Thanks brainhi! I am working on accepting him as he is. Im unclear about what I want, because Im unclear about what the situation will be because of all of the unusual stressful factors on top of the situation. Im trying to get a feel of how it will be with him. Im doing my best to see the reality of the situation and see what adjustments need to be made to make everything harmonious, or if that is even possible! I dont want to make any major decisions right now, just to keep working on it and see how things naturally unfold.
Good. I'm always learning to find ways to enjoy my journey. I hope you can as well. Good luck.
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