Im not sure where to start.
First off, my childhood wasnt the best. My mom is an undiagnosed manic depressive. We as children were verbally abused constantly. I was called fat in every term, every name in the book. My father has attempted suicide twice, most recently on April 2nd by stabbing himself in the stomach twice. He almost died from complications, but he was saved by being transferred to a better hospital via helicopter.

My father is married to a woman that needs help. Doctors dont help her they have heard her cry wolf too many times. She has a horrific personality. Im scared for my father to return to that house. I will make sure that he is taken care of, that is not my concern right here.

My mother did not visit the hospital ONCE. She has cried verbal abuse and even called the hospital and said the reason she was not visiting him - saying he would abuse her if she went there and that hes not a good person. My dad never was mean to us kids. he was and is a good dad.

I took the responsibility of going to the hospital, making decisions, buying mother groceries, and making sure she was ok.

My dad is improving. My husband and I decided to put a deposit down on a new build house that is slated to start next June. We told her like it was happy news, dads getting better as well. She kicked me and my husband out of her home.

She then called my work, and sounded incoherent. I called 911, i thought she was hurt. She then called back sounding as normal as ever, calling me a nothing but a loser (kept repeating herself), said that im a user (not sure how, I didnt ask nor intend on asking for money) and that im out of her will, never contact her again. She threatened to blackmail me with lies that never came out of my mouth.

I didnt do anything wrong. She was so hurtful. This is what she really thinks of me. I am just at a loss. I understand she is trying to cope herself, but her verbal abuse is enough to just drive me to the edge. Im going through enough. She is calling everyone in the family, making accusations, fighting.

Is it acceptable for me to cut her out of my life?