He didn't say precisely. I e-mailed him that he needs to educate me about what I do that causes that feeling in him. I don't know what I'm doing or how. I don't know if it's my problem or his. Maybe he was just venting. I do know that I have hurt his 'ego' in the past and he told me it was because I hit home with the truth. He also said it was ok... I did appreciate that he let me know and that I saw his reaction. I'm not sure why that was important, but it was. But I still don't always get what I'm doing exactly. I think I may do it because I want his attention and maybe because I'm punishing him in place of my father? Looking at that statement I see again how I do this push away and then pull kind of thing to people in my relationships - or at least in this one.

I see him in person next week. Maybe this will come up.