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He told me during the date that he was expected a friend of his (a girl from Canada) to show and that he "owed her a strip tease". Yeah that is weird to say that, but I mentioned before on my last post in regards to this, he mentioned that he was obsessed with this one chick who lives miles away from my town of Layton and is expected to move close to here; he wants to see her.
So I can't really love him when he has other girls surrounding him right? He just isn't the right guy.
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can love a guy like that but it won't result in a good situation. You're casting your pearls before swine, so to speak, someone that's never going to reciprocate fully anyway. He's double minded and would be split if his devotion and attention is elsewhere. Not sure why he even bothered asking you out on a date.
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I'm kind of getting sick and tired of waiting around for someone to find me. I feel like time is wasting away and that it will be too late for me (being the only person that I am) to find love. How am I going to have time for that after I turn 18?
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Love does not work by our timetable, ever. It never happens when you're waiting for it actively... instead you need to stop waiting and just move on with your life and remain open to it in the future whenever it is meant to be. Not trying to be all "fate-minded" but what i mean is, women & men both are far more attractive when they are just living their life happily and enjoying what is - that is, being single and independent.
Also. you're not even 18!? Umm you're in way too much of a hurry for something to happen.
If you won't have time to have love in your life after that changes, why would you pursue it now only to find you have to end it? not being gloomy here but if there is love, it will find a way regardless of your busy-ness. don't be in a hurry because later you'll be too busy, is all I'm saying.
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I'll have to pay attention to road as I drive for my first time, work away as a CNA, go away to Weber State, learn how to pay the bills, and schedule all of this other crap for my appointments and family affairs. I'm definitely not going to have any time once I'm a nurse.
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Plenty of nurses find love, marriages and companionship. Don't write if off because you'll have a career.