My husband does this with soda. He will buy me a bottle of soda and if I don't drink it right away it will be gone by the time I go for it in the morning. He will also eat my leftovers without asking me. It's infuriating! He's totally clueless.

Because I know my husband is clueless, I might say that I don't think he lied to you. He probably legit thought you weren't goin to eat it. Saying he lied supposed some intention on his part. I don't think he thought it was going to be as big of a deal as it was.

HOWEVER he NEVER should have called you crazy and told you you're acting "bipolar". What does that even mean? You had a right to be upset - although I could see why he thought crying over peanut butter was overkill. He may not have understood your mental state. But that doesn't give him the right to belittle you or minimize your feelings.

That's a major trigger for me. When I feel like my husband is disrespecting my feelings, that's when we get in the worst fights. Much of the time I'm not angry at what he did, I'm angry because he's ignoring my feelings about the situation. Thankfully (for him) he never says I'm acting bipolar.

I understand your rage. Hopefully you'll be able to talk to him later and he will respect you more.