I actually gasped a fresh breath of air hearing that you related to what I wrote. I was worried about that one.

I have been away from the forums for a good few months, and coming back already I feel as though I'm more inspired to change and grow. As easy as it is to get fully absorbed into one thing - there's something about an anonymous online forum filled with like-minded, beautiful people that keeps me coming back.

Being that you've mentioned getting distracted and absorbed into the, "Borderline identity," - it can be equally as easy to become distracted by the concept of, "fixing ourselves." And in saying that - sometimes - helping others can help ourselves more than anything else. It gives us a sense of purpose, direction, understanding, compassion, connected-ness and all kinds of other positive vibes - both for ourselves and for others.

In saying this...

Keeping in mind - (our own personal boundaries and limitations): We have nothing to lose by posting on this forum. I can't think of anything.

(Well, aside from maybe - trivial things like time and energy and internet data off the cell phone plan if we use a cell phone to post)

"We all have a story to tell. It's up to us to decide how to use it, abuse or accuse it."

Thanks,
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