I'm with the jeans & tee shirt. My t dresses pretty casually & I like that about her. One t I tried showed up looking like she was going to a cocktail party. I just didn't feel comfortable with her. I guess one of my issues is feeling judged by my appearance so I'm trying not to focus on that so much as to find out what I am inside & what makes me a worthwhile person & it ain't my looks!--Suzy