I use to wear my wedding ring only when I went to see my T to "copy" her because I liked the look of her hands and her ring on it. I ended up telling her because I got in another even more embarrassing situation at work because of it; someone commented on having not seen my ring before and I almost said, "That's because I only wear it on Fridays" LOL! I was so amused I actually told the woman at work and then told my T later that day about the whole thing and we both enjoyed it.

I am extremely fortunate because my husband made a comment to me once when he and I were laughing at something I'd said and I joked about his not laughing at me he was laughing "with" me, etc. and he broke in the middle and said he wasn't laughing at me or with me, he was enjoying Me. Something clicked in place and now I enjoy my enjoyment :-) at making others laugh using myself and my personal quirkiness.

A corollary is to think of anything your T has done that struck you as funny or "odd" and, for me, I realized my T appeared more vulnerable/sweet when she didn't understand or did something that seemed personal/odd to me. If I think that way about my T then perhaps other people think that way about me?