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Old Apr 17, 2014, 05:19 AM
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I did not meet with my attorney until outside the hearing room and he gave me instructions at that time; so I would go a little early if you can to talk to him about any concerns or questions, or even call the office ahead of time.

The "experts" that testified went in at different times than when I went in so that when it was my turn, it was only myself, the attorney, the judge, the clerk, and an administrator. I was told to be myself but to let the attorney talk and only speak when spoken to to answer questions, be as specific as I could and not to play up my strengths, just let them know how things have been and answer their specific questions to the best of my ability. There were some I could not remember as part of my issue was memory loss with my depression and meds and explained that to be honest that, "I am sorry I just cannot recall." As far as eye contact, though despite when growing up being told always to make eye contact, I don't think I did as my depression and anxiety were pretty bad at the time.

If you have concerns, contact your attorney would be the best thing to get more specific answers and advice as to what he/she would recommend. Wishing you all the best meanwhile. ((((George H))))))
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