I had a boyfriend at uni and I enjoyed some innocent exploring, but I didn't feel the emotional connection and completeness I get when I am with a woman. I realised when I was quite small that I was attracted to other girls and it was only in my early 20s that I allowed it to become reality. I think people are keen to pigeon hole themselves, when really we can have fluidity and be in love with someone's personality or soul too. Good luck and have fun :-D