I am of two minds on this one....part of me wishes that I could ask my T for a hug but I don't want him to think that I am a freak or that I am getting too close or anything and maybe that would be crossing the boundaries because he is male and I am female??? I don't know but I am just fearful of this. Second of all, I don't like to be touched by anyone to start with but I think that it would surprise my T to know that I would like a hug from him as to me he is a "safe" person who I would be okay with even though he is male.