Quote:
Originally Posted by trying2survive
there is no law against being a good caring person( although the way most people act nowadays you would think there is!) as long as you aren't doing sexually suggestive things, being an honest caring listener is a good thing and so rare nowadays i suspect this is why some people can't help but be attracted to you.
you will have to be honest with people that seem to be taking it the wrong way though, politely let them know you don't want to damage your friendship with them and you are not seeking a romantic relationship with them & that should clear up any misconceptions! hope this helps!  |
Thanks for your kind words. It really helped. I was really doubtful about how I should act, but all of you cleared that up right away, and I do feel much better because I'm comfortable with how I am right now. And what you said sounds really legitimate. There SHOULD BE no law against being caring
I guess I should be more honest because I tend to avoid situations that suggest relationships.....because of painful experience. But I guess it's lesson learned and I have to implement what I've learnt.
Just feel like no matter HOW polite you are, there are still people who won't like you. That hurts.
Thanks for the input!