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Originally Posted by Lovebird
I suppose it's my fault for not being direct enough, but what I really want is discussion on, is that what a family really is? All the fussing and fighting and drama? Is it really true that I can either be surrounded by relatives, or have peace and tranquility in my life, but not both? Or is it possible to have a family that solves problems without fighting?
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it's possible, but it doesn't seem like that is the case with your family.
i would guess that all families have "fights" or disagreements, but it's
not normal to have a way of life full of constant drama & irresponsibility.
i don't believe that any family out there is perfect, i know mine is not..but
they don't fight every single holiday, but sometimes they do..i enjoy being away from my family because their goals in life don't coincide with mine & i choose not to argue about my beliefs, goals vs. theirs. we can have civil discussions at times..but for me it's not often enough so i avoid.
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