Yesterday, we asked my daughter to leave (the same one who had been fighting with her boyfriend the day before, which involved flinging coffee on each other) because she kept running her mouth at my husband and just had to make sure she got the last word in. I'm sorry (no I'm not) but you do not use foul language and flip the bird at someone in their OWN HOUSE. It was then discovered after they left that the boyfriend had forgotten his medication, and they had left the laundry they were doing. It's still in the laundry room. They just called to ask about it. Now, this is coming from boyfriend, not daughter, and she called for confirmation to help convince him it's ridiculous.... OF COURSE they are perfectly welcome to come and pick up what's theirs. No, don't be silly, we're not going to keep your things from you. No, you're not going to have to call the police to make us let you in to get what's yours. We are not that way. But boyfriend is acting all terrified. "Um, is there going to be any drama if we just come by and get our things, and leave again?" My answer, "Not unless you bring the drama."

Why is it, I've got the only husband in the family without a prison record, and HE is the bad guy everyone acts so afraid of?