Sounds like you are having a really tough go of things. I wish I had a solution for you but all I can offer is my sympathy. Sounds like your husband may have a problem, possibly depression and that certainly doesn't help at this particular time. Try to take care of yourself and get your rest for the baby's sake. My heart goes out to you.
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Bipolar I, Depression, GAD Meds: Zoloft, Zyprexa, Ritalin
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