I had never thought about it in last 2 yrs, the time since we got married. But recently, I have noticed my husband gelling just too well with the husband of one of my friend. I have never seen him being so friendly even with his own friends. And this friendship (me knowing this girl) started just 3 months ago. Now I always try to avoid this couple, but either that guy or my husband always find a way to meet; though the wives are always around.
Funny part is that we, the wives, openly call our husbands GAY. They do not take it seriously and do not oppose. ()

After a series of meeting with them, I tried to have a overview on our marriage and my relationship with my husband. It was a arranged marriage, before marriage I had met him just 2-3 times. We belong from different backgrounds and different cities as well. After marriage, I started falling in love with him and today I love him more than myself. Still, there are somethings that make me conscious of whether he really loves me or its just a duty for him.

1. We never ever had a passionate love making.
2. We do have sex occasionally, may be once or twice in a month. (Which I feel he does out of duty)
3. The whole thing, foreplay and intercourse(if any) last only 30 mins or less.
4. Thr's no cuddling after sex. He just falls asleep.
5. He had never ejaculated in me. The only once he did, was last week, bcoz we have started planning a baby. (Though I do not think it was successful )
We do not use condom, bcoz initially when we tried to use condoms, before i could put it on, the erection ceased.

6. He never had a girlfriend (Or may be he hasn't told me). Earlier, i used to think this is because he had a bad dressing sense and Didn't looked good before marriage.

All these things make me think, " Is my husband really a gay??"

But, otherwise he is a gem of a person. Takes very good care of me, is always concerned about me. And I do not want to lose him at any cost.

Pls Suggest, If my doubts are really true or I am making just wild imagination.