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Old Apr 18, 2014, 01:39 AM
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Originally Posted by Fleury29 View Post
I've discovered a huge source of my problems (though not all) seem to come from people thinking I'm flirting inappropriately or doing things with my eyes that I shouldn't do. I've tried various things to not do these things yet I always seem to get the label. It doesn't matter where I look, how I talk, people just assume I'm doing one or the other or both, when I'm trying to avoid the perception of any such thing. Could this be adding to my problem?
Often, it is the other person who is misreading expressions, gestures and other aspects of an interaction. A person could be consciously or unconsciously hoping or paranoid that others are flirting with him/her, and so everything looks like a flirtation, even if it isn't.