So start treating them as being there forever and making sure you choosing the right people to be there with you. Many people seem to change for the person or persons they are with to "fit in" or be more likeable. The best policy is to be yourself and be honest. You can grow with people and learn new things of course the positive things are the ones to go for the most. Be strong knowing that codependency is not a valued trait that you must be the person you want in your life.

Each time you find that you have done a good thing for yourself or others, take that time to feel proud and realize that this moment is better than anytime you may have not cared for others or yourself.....then celebrate in your heart!