I've been married for 37 years and my husband has apologized maybe twice. He never says he is sorry but I know he is based on how he acts. He will give me puppy dog looks, hug me more and just generally do more nice things for me. It used to bother me and then I came to understand that it was not important who was to blame for the argument. We were probably both a little bit to blame and we were both sorry we fought and made each other feel bad. We focused our efforts on making our communication and life where we didn't fight as much and before we knew it we weren' fighting at all.

Saying she is sorry you feel that way is probably more the truth than her saying she is sorry for what she said or did. If you examine your feelings you may feel much the same. Just remember in the end that you love each other and act on that feeling. It is much nicer.