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Originally Posted by Miss Princess
I want more commitment .. Like i would be happy with being engaged to him he wants to have sex with me but i cant i have a chronic pain problem how can i nicely tell him to wait a lil bit more til im healed?im thinking of texting him ive been seriously thinking of what we were talking about having sex with u but i really cant right now my pain has been getting worse. ( It really has been getting alot worse :,() any advice on what i should do ? Did i make it more clear? Lol
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What do you mean by "more" commitment? He already seems very committed to you. He isn't seeing other women, whereas you have dated.
You've been clear about the chronic pain condition. If he waits for you, then that is another sign of his commitment. If he can't wait any longer, then good riddance. A good man will be able to respect your health and wishes.
As for getting engaged to him -- has he proposed? If he has, the decision is something that you'll have to make by yourself. Are you ready? Do you want to do this? Is it a practically sound decision? Do you love him? Will you be a stable and functional couple? These factors are, in my opinion, more important to your long-run happiness than the desire to have sex.