I'm not sure why my fiancé would keep the fact that he's been seeing a therapist from me.

My fiancé has always struggled with lying and he is a CSA survivor. He told me of the abuse early on. He has a bad temper and other things I feel are connected to the CSA so I always told him I felt he needed treatment for the abuse. Well, randomly, during an argument today, he disclosed that he's been seeing a PTSD therapist for almost two months. I was happy but hurt because it's yet another thing he kept from me.

We are recovering from his emotional infidelity and him keeping the therapy from me triggered me because he obviously is still very capable of witholding things from me. Between the emotional affair, the lying to preserve how I see him and a lie earlier on in our relationship - about his relationship status - I feel I will never truly know him and that he will never truly be honest.

Should I just end this? We are also long distance as I moved for a job.

I should add that I struggle with relationships and pretty bad anxiety and his lying is a major trigger for me.

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