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Originally Posted by rouge198
He went on to say that he is a great person and I told him that I don't think that is true because he has lied too many times for it to be. He seemed hurt by that and said he also didn't tell me that he did seek help regarding his infidelity from friends ... What I don't get is what he admitted those things so late.
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It sounds like you could both benefit from couples counseling. Telling him he isn't a good person is hurtful and isn't helpful for a relationship. You say that he "seemed hurt" but it is clearly a hurtful comment.
Some people just don't share every single thing. I am like that. Sometimes information is just for me. I might not want to talk about it because it makes me feel uncomfortable or embarrassed, or maybe I just don't feel like talking about it and it doesn't make a difference if I do talk about it. Maybe he didn't think his talking to people about the infidelity needed to be said to you. That is okay!
I have been in therapy for about a year and I haven't told my husband - and I really don't know if I ever will. My therapy is mine. I don't have to tell anyone if I don't want to.
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