T is about 21 years older than me. Recently I had to switch to a PCP that is younger than I am but about 17 years where as my previous one was about 12 years older. I find I have a harder time relating to the new one. We are in totally different stages of life and have had different life experiences. She doesn't have children yet so for her to tell me about parenting I know comes from the "book" where as previous PCP had the actual experience. So I often said if you child was going through this what would you do?? That meant a lot more to me than knowing what the books said. I feel the same way about T. While she hasn't experiences the thing I have she still can relate to the different stages of life...