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Old Apr 18, 2014, 09:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Sky Blueblack View Post
UUUMMMMM are you actually sure about that?? Have you asked her whether they slept together?

I don't think that is true. That is having a friend and she obviously wasn't a friend?? I am sorry but I am not sure that I believe that hunny=(

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Emotional affairs are more than friendships, they devoid the relationship of emotional intimacy and connection. Her description sounds less like just friendship, where it's occasional contact, and more like his filling a void in current relationship, as op's description went onto describe when it occurred.
There's much literature on what emotional infidelity is.
To me, if op states it's had a negative impact on relationship, then it's had a negative impact on her relationship.

Which, to the OP, is a high conflict relationship, where you want to be?

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