i have this problem with my boyfriend. when we first met, he used to be on time all the time. he is so in love with the computer, has ruined his own sleep patterns, stayed up way too much without any sleep (he is now 34) and doesn't get why i am always so mad at him. he agrees at a certain time to meet and i am waiting hours on end then has the nerve to be mad at me for leaving wtf?!? excuse me? i can't be mad at you cuz i waited 8 hrs for you??

my ex therapist told me some people are just chronically late and i laughed. i told her don't tell my bf's dad that he would hit the roof saying you are just in agreement with my son's lack of time so he can keep doing it without any consequences. i said i am in agreement with him i can't understand how someone can be so chronically late it's no wonder they don't keep jobs. i told her i never had friends like this they were never chronically late, speaking of which, that's how you lose friends and relationships for being so chronically late all the time. i have heard enough stories of people losing friendships/relationships.

i have been late but never a chronic issue as i make it a priority to be punctual. i am late once in a blue moon and nobody has a problem with my time issues. i told my bf we have what they call clocks and watches there's no excuse why you can't look at it and realize you gotta meet me somewhere