i am having that problem too i am the type of person who will rush into things. i just want it done and over it why? because i don't wanna hear other people's success about how they made it to their goals asap before i could even get there i feel like i gotta compete with them just to get there!

i grew up not using goals i was told it was for "white people who gave up with that fantasy." so, trying to use goals now is still intimidating and i feel like how am i gonna get there. i have some goals right now and i feel like it could be difficult getting there. when i was a kid, if something was gonna take a long time i would give up because i felt i didn't have all day or x amount of years to even get to that goal - i wanted it right then and now i have a certain way of wanting things now.

well, i am still working on being productive when it comes to my goals. i always felt things were too hard, i never grew up taking challenges and risks as i was told it was other people's ways of doing something it was just stupid of what i was told. i had a couple of teachers who felt i could take risks/challenges if i could let myself do that and not be afraid of it.