((Ak482)) many well thoughts your way.

I am not sure what to say to help, and I don't want to come across anything but.

I know when I was younger, with the area that I grew up, the generation, and just in general with society- Sex is held on such a high pedestal and even some people see it not as I see it as, which is fine but just because someone else sees it differently doesn't mean either one of us are wrong or right- in the end we do what we feel is right for ourselves and not others.

You have in your recent post here that you feel as if you are stupid for not having sex? I felt that way for a long time and to be honest for me- there was a reason behind it of being scared of many things and also issues.
With my own past, I can honestly say not for all does sex=love.

In my opinion- and it is just my opinion- One the best things I think for us as individuals to do, is to judge ourselves less harshly and to accept that- hey maybe we aren't like the vast majority (which there is nothing wrong with that).

Some do see that a beautiful things with a person is them knowing themselves. Their are their own individual, even if it is not the popular vote some times.

I do hope you the best, and many well thoughts your way.