A six year old can't be expected to stand up for themselves or even to understand the concept of standing up for oneself. A fourteen year old is in a similar position.

Now that you recognize this you CAN stand up for yourself! I think you are doing so just by posting what you did... thinking about it and realizing it, coming to an understanding, realizing that what they did wasn't right, and using your voice to acknowledge that it wasn't right by posting here.

You can't go back and change what happened but now that you realize it you can take control back... stand up to yourself, for yourself, and don't let you keep causing pain to yourself by blaming yourself for things that were out of your control.

{{{{{{karatekid}}}}}}

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