Like many of you I have these dreams too... about my mom, my husband, my father, my brother. Yoda, my husband died the same year as your bf.
I don't think these dreams are necessarily a lack of closure. As different things happen in our lives some times we have to process the death in a different way. I also find the dreams come more often around anniversary dates.
Hugs to all. That first realization that the person really is dead rips the wound wide open again.
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