Idk. I see the reading by your t as a concentrated form of comfort. Youre spending less time overall, so you need to get a lot out of a little. Also i see it as a transition to including more of it in your life with your family?

Eta - when t and i sit in the kiddie chairs for a more intense talk, it was similarly usually only for a short time in the session. We havent gone there in a while.