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Originally Posted by Mysterygirl202
Thanks for the kindness!
Well you see she's a singer/actress and I sing and act (only in small films) as well. And I just.. Always wanted to be like her. The way she sings, etc. What happened was... I wanted to be as small as her.. and I would read these magazines about how much she worked out and all that. And then I found out she had an ED and I felt like there was no way for me to be that small unless I did the same things she did.
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I do understand how you might want to copy EVERYthing you can from this great person you admire. Have you given thought though, to whether a degree of smallness has been relevant to her success? Do you suppose that talent and hard work has been more important?
I know its not that simple. I do understand that you may know something intellectually without being able to feel it emotionally. But i still think its important to stop and think and remind yourself.