mum called me this morning, barrier up again. she asked if i was ok.
invited her to daughters 18th birthday meal on saturday night which is very close to where she lives.

made arrangements to have friends round all weekend and is not prepared to cancel for the sake of her grandaughter.

only friends who see her every week anyway, obviously my children aren't important enough for her.

she can just go get stuffed. just makes it easier for me to let go of her i suppose, she is an unfeeling hateful spiteful woman who is going to end up very lonely in her old age.

i have to explain to dani some excuse why her own nan is not celebrating her 18th birthday with us.

grrrrrrrrrrr. still, we invited couple of danis friends along.
she is going away with bf to celebrate later this month too

we will make it special for her. tonys parents are away at their holiday home, but they made her a special photo album from birth to now which is beautiful, and they are taking her for meal when they come home.

my dad prolly forgot she' 18. loser.

sorry to rant, was in a good mood til i spoke to her(mother dear)

bye xxxxxxxx