I like me too and I have great friends who love me. I'm a good person and I don't deserve what I get from others. I would never say such horrible things about another person at work, even if I hated them.

My friend who was there for the assault defended me and told me that it honestly sounds like they were irritated because I'm pretty, smart, confident, and am comfortable with my body/sexuality. They are all a bunch of stodgy, stereotypical feminists. I'm more of a lipstick, pro raunch feminist.

I go to therapy to learn how to present myself in ways that are supposed to help people not be intimidated by me and understand me. This is over the top though. I'm beginning to think that I should just stop caring about how I come off to people and accepting that most people don't like me because they are immature and childish. I can't control others and I am tired of working so hard to try to get *****es to not hate me.