The 3 friends I contacted said everything was OK with them. I have another friend on the West Coast who I said some hurtful things to in high school and never asked for her forgiveness-30+ years ago.

I have her parents' phone and could call them and ask where she is but I'm debating that one-she's been diagnosed with depression in the recent past. I haven't spoken to her for over 10 years.

I don't know about that one-maybe I should just learn from her that I can't be possessive? I DON't KNOW!

AC