I always had others make decisions for me, i didn't know how to make them on my own. Until i was forced to decide for myself, nobody did it for me and if i didn't make a decision i was forced into the result ( usually not to my likings). So i learnt i can't take all day deciding something since life continues and i get forced into either option whether i make the decision or not. (though i can only practice this when its mundane stupid day to day decisions).