Hello, I am in a relationship (my first relationship) with a woman and I need help. I'm a male, 24, she's 27. We've been seeing each other for 45 days so its still early but we regularly say we love each other.

How it's been going is like this: our schedules don't really work the best, so I end up spending the weekends with her, and leaving my family (whom I live with) for those 3 days. I feel guilty because before I met her, I would always stay home and play video games with my brother, but now my brother is lonely. But I really want to be with this woman. She does make me happy. On Sundays, like this past one, she begs me to stay and I end up being up really late, wayyy past my bedtime, then I'm late for work on Monday (as what happened today). Work has been extermely stressful, we are required to work 10 hour days plus weekends. I've been late soooo many times, I'm worried I'm going to eventually lose this job. I don't have an education and I wouldn't know where to start to try to look for a new job if I had to. I don't make much money and my girlfriend is already talking about her dream home and this woman has very expensive tastes.

We went out on a date on Friday, and I we were talking about our pasts, and I stupidly asked about how her first time (sex) was. She said she wasn't attracted to the guy at all, and she got real drunk before they did it. He didn't know what he was doing, and it wasn't pleasurable to her at all. I'm not sure why, but I can't stop thinking about this and I am getting really depressed over it. I need help