ok, do not think that way.

I can understand losing a child cause I have lost two, and I can also understand for I was carrying twins when I lost one and the other survied and she was born very premature and had to live for 5months in the Neo-natal unit..

Having a child yes is a gift in itself but haveing a life is also a gift..
When we wake up each moring to start a new day, we should thank the higher being above that we are alive. No matter what. that is his/her gift to us..

I can understand you are morining the loss of a child, but if you have ohter kids in your life, love them to the fullest give them everything that you can, and make them fill the love that you can give them..
Do not let them for a second think that you do not love them..

Do not for a second let them go.. They should be your first and formost thougth everyday of your life, besides yourself..
They are also a gift that you still have in your life.. No matter how old they are..

When you walk beside the baby section start to look at it as , one day I will have grandkids, one day I will be buying someone elese these things cause they will be having a child, that I can hlep them when they need it..
Do not look at it as a loss.. I know it is hard, but we have to let the past go, and that is always the hardest thing to do.. Trust me I know..


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take time to heal thyself before trying to help others, or you will never get better