I am a firm believer of cutting off ties with family if all they are doing is harming you. I certainly don't believe that blood is thicker than water. you do not owe any allegiance to those that mentally and emotionally abuse you. would you keep a friend that treated you the same way? not likely. surround yourself with people that uplift you and support you. it is especially important if you are prone to depression. and don't give up on antidepressants. there are so many out there. keep trying them. if you don't notice a change within a couple months, try something else. don't let them increase dosages and prolong taking something that isn't working. if something is going to work, you will notice a difference. you just have to be strong and advocate for yourself with your doc. I tried several and then finally found the one that worked. it was like a miracle. take care.