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Originally Posted by henrydavidtherobot
Throughout my life, I have found that people are easily offended by me, prone to dislike me, and see me very differently than I see myself. I try to remedy this with self-awareness and by being kind to others, but it's still a problem.
Are some people just people that people love to hate? What are your thoughts?
Also, how does one become OK with this?
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This is something that has bothered me a lot. When I got kicked off my writing site I was told I just rub people the wrong way. Huh? I've been told these feelings are very common with people who suffer from the disorders (I hate that word!) that we do. I don't know about you, but I have a hard time keeping my filters up. If I think someone is rude or petty or unkind, no matter how nice I try to be to them they can sense how I really feel. So quit blaming yourself. It's just that you don't have the tools to be dishonest and that is not a bad thing. There are people out there who will recogize and admire this quality. You'll find them.