mandyfins,

i wish i could say my dad deals with his emotions by doing what he does, but he doesnt...he makes people think he does but he lives a life dominated by alcohol. this has led to some very disturbing behaviour yesterday and today...but thats for another post maybe. i just wish his way was the right way for him, i really do.

you are all making good points here. i find it very fascinating reading other peoples experiences, i learn so much from this.

simon