Hi,

I have to concur with everyone else's comments. She is using you, stringing you along, taking you for a ride. I agree especially about her friend not falling out with her, unless there was more between her and this other man than she let you know. What she did was very cruel and uncaring.

Please don't move to be opposite her work or she will think you are stalking her. Also if you do finish it would be agony for you to see her every day and not be together. Try Ptang's suggestion of backing off for a while and see what happens.

Best of luck. x