I also would not change my work schedule, anymore than you have. She knew your schedule before, sounds like she's making every excuse under the sun, to not commit to you.

Moving flats won't solve a thing.

Yeah, that ex thing, i dunno. One thing if they'd just been friends all along, don't let go of your gut's discomfort. It's suspect. How old, is she, anyways?

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