Don't know what to do. My bf and I have been together a little over a year. He hates my job with the fire of a thousand suns. This has always been the case but it's getting worse it's like ky being away at work is permission for him to be controlling and down right mean. I went Friday night and had dinner and a few beers out which I rarely do. I dropped my phone in the bathroom a male DJ answered it to try to find the owner. As soon as I got the phone back he called screaming accusing me of cheating and wanting to know why I was in a bar without telling him (asking his permission). This type of screaming is common these days and I didn't feel up to it so I hung up and turned the phone off. Since then it's been all out war. I've been called a cheater, a liar, a *****, a junkie, a user (despite being the only one with a job), a *****. Everything about how I'm hurting him. I don't know what to do. It's been strained for awhile but it's taken a nose dive in the last few days. I hate this feeling.