Please tell me if you think i should write to him...am confused...sometimes seems like a good idea to have my say...but knowing i will not get a response even, another way to play around with my self respect...but he needs to know what he's done...he can't go sailing into the sunset....just like that...but then i do know also now it's no longer about him but me...he's moved on and i need to give myself closure...will this be a closure for me...this communication?