Wow....that is big. Welcome to PC DePressMe! I haven't experienced dating someone in the first year....I recently got out of a relationship with someone who drank. I don't know what it would be like to be with someone when they get out of detox. Maybe go to an Alanon meeting? And its OK to think selfish thoughts. You wouldn't be human if you didn't. Don't be disgusted with yourself, you're in for a long ride. There's gotta be a lot of fear wrapped around all this. Please feel free to vent here!!!! And keep us posted!

~Rayna